Therapy for Endless Anxiety in Los Angeles, CA.
The thoughts feel endless. Your mind is always on.
Specialized Therapy in Los Angeles, CA.
Virtual services available throughout Washington & California.
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic. Often, it shows up as a constant sense of mental and physical tension that can be hard to turn off. It may feel like your mind is always scanning for what could go wrong, replaying conversations, or trying to prepare for every possible outcome so nothing slips through the cracks.
For many people, anxiety feels like:
Overthinking things long after they’ve happened
A persistent sense of “something is wrong” even when nothing is
Difficulty relaxing, even when there’s time to rest
Trouble saying no, setting boundaries, or disappointing others
Feeling responsible for other people’s emotions or reactions
A tight, restless, or “wired but tired” feeling in the body
Racing thoughts or mental loops that are hard to interrupt
Second-guessing decisions or needing reassurance
Irritability, overwhelm, or emotional sensitivity under stress
Physical symptoms like tension, fatigue, stomach discomfort, or shallow breathing
Anxiety can also show up in more subtle ways, like over-functioning, perfectionism, or staying constantly busy so there’s no space to feel what’s underneath.
While anxiety can feel overwhelming and exhausting, it is often a learned response from the nervous system trying to create safety and predictability. With support, it can become something you understand, work with, and respond to differently — rather than something that runs the show.
How Therapy for Anxiety Can Actually Help:
Therapy for anxiety with me is not just about learning coping skills or challenging thoughts but it’s about slowing down the moment your anxiety starts to take over and understanding what is actually happening beneath it.
In our sessions, we pay close attention to how anxiety shows up for you specifically. For some people, it’s racing thoughts and constant mental checking. For others, it’s tightness in the chest, restlessness, irritability, or a sense that something is “off” even when nothing is clearly wrong. We begin by noticing these patterns as they happen in real time, instead of only talking about them after the fact.
A big part of our work is helping you understand that anxiety is not just a thought problem but a nervous system response. When your system has learned to stay on alert, it can feel like your mind is constantly scanning for what could go wrong, what you missed, or what you need to fix right now in order to feel safe.
My approach integrates Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), EMDR-informed work, mindfulness, and nervous system regulation. EMDR can also be used to target underlying experiences that keep the anxiety system “stuck” in over-activation, especially when anxiety is tied to earlier experiences of stress, unpredictability, or emotional overwhelm.
Your Questions About Anxiety Therapy, Answered
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Anxiety is your body’s natural alarm system — a built-in response designed to help you notice danger, prepare for challenges, and stay safe. In short bursts, it can be helpful. It’s what helps you study for an exam, react quickly in a stressful moment, or stay alert in uncertain situations.
But sometimes, that alarm system becomes overactive.
When anxiety is more persistent, it can show up even when there isn’t immediate danger. Your mind and body stay in a heightened state of alert, as if something might go wrong at any moment. This can make everyday life feel tense, exhausting, or hard to fully relax into.
Anxiety can affect:
Thoughts — overthinking, worry, worst-case scenarios, self-doubt
Body — tight chest, racing heart, muscle tension, fatigue, stomach discomfort
Behavior — avoidance, people-pleasing, over-preparing, overworking, reassurance-seeking
Emotions — restlessness, irritability, overwhelm, or feeling “on edge”
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Anxiety is your nervous system’s threat response system doing its job too intensely or too frequently.
It doesn’t always require an obvious “danger” in the present moment. Instead, it can be activated by:
internal stress or pressure
unresolved emotional experiences
uncertainty or lack of control
learned patterns from earlier environments
or even subtle cues your body associates with past stress
Anxiety is the body’s way of preparing you for something it believes you need to handle or avoid. The problem is that the system can become overly sensitive—so it starts reacting even when you’re not actually in danger.
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When your brain feels like it won’t shut off, it’s often because your nervous system is stuck in a state of alertness.
Instead of shifting into rest mode, your system is staying in “scan for problems” mode—continuously searching for what might go wrong, what you missed, or what needs to be solved next. This can happen when your brain has learned that staying mentally active is safer than letting your guard down.
For some people, this comes from long periods of stress, responsibility, emotional unpredictability, or having to stay “on top of things” to prevent problems. Over time, the mind learns: If I keep thinking, I stay safe.
So the constant thoughts aren’t random—they’re protective, even if they feel exhausting.
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Anxiety can show up in different ways for different people, but it often affects the mind, body, emotions, and behavior all at once.
Mental / cognitive symptoms
Constant overthinking or “what if” thoughts
Racing mind or difficulty turning thoughts off
Replaying conversations or situations after they happen
Expecting the worst or feeling like something bad is coming
Difficulty concentrating or staying present
Second-guessing decisions or needing reassurance
Emotional symptoms
Feeling on edge, restless, or easily overwhelmed
Irritability or feeling emotionally “snappy” under stress
Persistent worry or uneasiness
A sense of dread or internal tension without a clear cause
Feeling like you can’t fully relax
Physical symptoms
Tight chest or shallow breathing
Racing heart or physical tension
Fatigue or feeling “wired but tired”
Muscle tightness (jaw, shoulders, neck)
Stomach discomfort or digestive changes
Headaches or general body tension
Behavioral symptoms
Avoiding situations that feel overwhelming or uncertain
People-pleasing or difficulty saying no
Over-preparing or over-controlling situations
Reassurance-seeking or needing to “check” things repeatedly
Staying busy to avoid uncomfortable feelings
Anxiety is not just “worry” — it’s a full mind-body response that can become chronic when the nervous system stays in a heightened state of alert for too long.
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In therapy for anxiety, you can learn how to:
Recognize what triggers your anxiety and how it shows up in your mind and body
Interrupt cycles of overthinking, rumination, and reassurance-seeking
Reduce avoidance and build more confidence in facing uncertainty
Understand the emotional experiences underneath the anxiety (like fear, pressure, or responsibility)
Strengthen self-trust and decision-making
Regulate your nervous system so your body feels safer and more grounded over time
Approaches like Emotion-Focused Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) can help you relate to anxious thoughts differently — instead of getting pulled into them, you learn how to notice them, make space for them, and choose how you want to respond.
Ready to Begin Anxiety Therapy in Los Angeles, CA?
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